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Consent… It’s a pretty big deal

So today Magenta posted a pretty good blog on consent, sexual assault and stealthing (when dicks remove the condom without permission). You can read the blog here. It kinda got me thinking... Thinking about all the times some tool of a client has done this to me, all the times I have rationalised this behaviour, all… Continue reading Consent… It’s a pretty big deal

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Q& A

1 The legalities. Is it legal in Australia? What do you put down as 'occupation'? How does tax work? What a complex question. I have done a blog on this you can check that out HERE. For tax information it’s best to chat to your accountant, or your local sex worker organisation. I personally declare… Continue reading Q& A

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Learning to Love Me

So let’s talk body image…. Well, my body image anyway. I haven’t always been a curvy girl. I was a stick thin kid. Then i hit puberty and overnight i went from a kids size 12 to a ladies 12 with a DD bust and hips.From there i slowly ballooned up. This is a ramble… Continue reading Learning to Love Me

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Sex Work and the Law

So is it legal? A question I get A LOT! This blog will cover the current legislation in WA and briefly touch on the other Australian states, I will also have a quick look at the general legislative models that are applied. Please understand that my word is not gospel. The following is what i… Continue reading Sex Work and the Law

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Career Highlights

So it’s “Fun Friday” and I am going to use a suggestion from one of my gorgeous followers. What are some of your career highlights or proudest moments? I have had a LONG career in this industry and I am proud of most of it. Hopefully I still have a good 10-20 years in me,… Continue reading Career Highlights

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Common Questions

So many apologies for missing Wednesday, I have had such a chaotic week with real life stuffs I wasn’t able to write. Today I am doing a question and answer blog. Things I get asked often and the answers to them. “Do, like, your family know?” Yes they do, they love me and accept that… Continue reading Common Questions

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Tax Time

Today I’m covering how I manage my expenses, income and money in general. The 2016 Financial year is upon us and I like to be organised. So these are the things I do. Now I do my own taxes and I like to be super organised. So what works for me may not work for… Continue reading Tax Time

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Pop Culture Whorephobia

So let’s chat about how Sex Work is represented in pop culture. I am talking about those television shows that glorify the industry and the harmful stigma reinforcing jokes made in mainstream pop culture and media. So let’s start with shows like ‘The Girlfriend Experience’, ‘Secret Diary of a Call Girl’ ‘The Client List’ and… Continue reading Pop Culture Whorephobia

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My first BDSM booking

My first BDSM Booking I had always been fascinated by the psychology behind BDSM. When I was offered the opportunity to partake in a BDSM booking I was an eager beaver! P was a regular of Miss A’s. He was into cock worship, cock and ball torture and restraining. We tied naked him to the bed, in… Continue reading My first BDSM booking

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Forgetting Clients

Now this may just be me, but it’s a comment I have heard from a lot of workers. We don’t remember every client. I am lucky if i can remember a client I saw an hour ago, let alone 3 years ago. There are a few types of clients that stay with you. Then there… Continue reading Forgetting Clients