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Consent… It’s a pretty big deal

So today Magenta posted a pretty good blog on consent, sexual assault and stealthing (when dicks remove the condom without permission). You can read the blog here. It kinda got me thinking... Thinking about all the times some tool of a client has done this to me, all the times I have rationalised this behaviour, all… Continue reading Consent… It’s a pretty big deal

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Common Questions

So many apologies for missing Wednesday, I have had such a chaotic week with real life stuffs I wasn’t able to write. Today I am doing a question and answer blog. Things I get asked often and the answers to them. “Do, like, your family know?” Yes they do, they love me and accept that… Continue reading Common Questions

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Pop Culture Whorephobia

So let’s chat about how Sex Work is represented in pop culture. I am talking about those television shows that glorify the industry and the harmful stigma reinforcing jokes made in mainstream pop culture and media. So let’s start with shows like ‘The Girlfriend Experience’, ‘Secret Diary of a Call Girl’ ‘The Client List’ and… Continue reading Pop Culture Whorephobia

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Easy Work? Hardly

“But your jobs so easy!” "I would love to work as little as you do" "But if you don't have work today how can you be busy" This is something i hear A LOT. Once people realise what I do there are two assumptions they make - I’m lazy and I work very little for… Continue reading Easy Work? Hardly

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“What is it like to be an escort in Perth?”

Attention Heidi Anderson.... 92.9 Interview “What it’s like to be an escort in Perth”   The original article I am responding to was posted on Perth Now here I was approached to do  this interview, I took far too long to respond and they spoke to ‘Jeremy’ instead. Now, after reading this article as it… Continue reading “What is it like to be an escort in Perth?”

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Things Not to Ask a Sex Worker

Things Not to Ask a Sex Worker A short Monday post to share some things to NOT ask a sex worker. I mean you can, I have heard ALL of these and I am happy to talk about everything. But as a general rule if someone trusts you enough to come out as a sex… Continue reading Things Not to Ask a Sex Worker